Anonymous asked: How do I become free spirited?
I don’t think I could define this in a way that would be textbook-perfect, but I’ll explain what it would mean in my eyes. Follow your inner peace and heart, trust yourself and live with love, be the best version of yourself and do not let anything or anyone have control over your happiness / sadness. Be at peace with everything that happens around you and act in such a way that at the end of each day when you put your head on your pillow you can smile and say to yourself, “I’m so proud of you”.
I believe that to be the secret to being at piece and free spirited.
asked: Babe you're mind is perfect
thank you sweetheart, this means so much to me, have a beautiful day xxx
asked: You are incredibly intelligent and gifted with words. I would love to hear more of what you have to say.
Thank you ever so so much, hearing things like this makes me happier than anyone could imagine.
asked: When I first experienced what you have, it felt so good! I'm so happy fit you... Continue to believe in where you are and who you are. God has so much in store for you! Much love :)
Thank you very much, so much love right back at you. God bless <3
asked: Would you mind checking out my blog & telling me what you think? xoxo
it’s very sweet, as long as you’re blogging for yourself and expressing & inspiring yourself you’re on the right track I believe :) xxx
asked: Hi lovely, I just read your post on technology and I simply just wanted to give a few words in return. I think you mentioned it, how we seek validation from others instead of finding it within ourselves. No wonder why we're so fragile, exposed and impressionable. Technology has brought our generation to a point where the numbers of likes on your profile picture says more of what kind of person you are, more than your diary ever could. How we see ourselves is no longer a priority to most.
Thank you for your addition, it comforts me such a great deal to know I’m not the only one that thinks this way.
Anonymous asked: I just want to start this message by saying that this is my favourite blog. You are an amazing writer and so inspiring. I was wondering if you had any advice for me. I'm 18, like you, but mentally I'm in a completely different place. I live in the UK and started college this week and I strongly dislike it. I'm incredibly shy and struggle making friends and despite only having attended 4 days of classes I'm already an outcast and lonely. I feel myself getting depressed. Do you have any advice? Ty
Hello sweetie, thank you for such a beautiful message - it really did lift my spirits. I think seeing as it’s only been 4 days you really need to give yourself more time to adjust. Give yourself a chance. Go out and introduce yourself, the worst that could happen is that you’d never speak to him/her again and to be honest the possibilities greatly outweigh the embarrassment factor. Try to spend more time doing things that make you happy - be more outgoing and most importantly remember on the scale of things college is a tiny speck in your life - it may be amazing it may not be what you hoped but your main priority should be doing the best you can for your future. Believe me if you focus on your happiness mentally everything falls into place.
Also, try repeating a few affirmations to yourself daily and see if that helps in any way. If you ever need more help / advice I’d be happy to be of assistance. Lots of love to you, you’ll always have a friend in me. xxx
asked: I swear you are my most favorite blog, I am checking your site every day and those things under the tag "quote" can always inspire me and make me feel better! Thank you a lot, really! ((:
this means so much to me, knowing that someone goes out of their way to check out my blog every day is so so so flattering and makes it worthwhile! I hope I continue to post things that inspire you and make you happy! :)
Anonymous asked: WELL my summer sucked compared to yours. ahahahaha im glad you had an amazing one :) how did you throw those dance parties? I dont know how to throw my own :$
aw haha it really was fantastic, and the dance parties we attended because we snuck into the hotels disco’s as they were near our beach haha! Ended up getting kicked out on the 3rd night though. I’ve never thrown one myself either :) hope you have a much better summer next year!
Anonymous asked: You're an incredible writer but I thought it would be pointless to tell you because you probably get that all the time.
Are you kidding me? This is the most amazing message and one I most certainly don’t get all the time. Nonetheless, it means the absolute world to me and I hope the good karma comes right back around and makes you as happy as you’ve just made me.